The following is a compilation of my expectations and preferred etiquette to abide by during our interactions. Additionally, my business policies are included and grouped together with the former. I feel that having a clear understanding of what is expected has dual benefit for myself and clients. It helps them prepare for what to expect. It also prevents hurting what would’ve been a pleasant arrangement by putting their foot in their mouth or unknowingly crossing a line.
THIS PAGE IS A WORK IN PROGRESS AND I WILL BE ADDING TO IT ACCORDINGLY.
ESCORT ETIQUETTE 101
Behavior Guidelines
Formalities
Payment
OUTCALLS : Please have the donation placed in a very obvious, visible place. Many people then excuse themselves to the bathroom for a moment so that I can count it to avoid awkwardness or for those with a fantasy that doesn’t align with the transactional nature of the experience.
INCALLS : Upon my arrival, after exchanging pleasantries, hand over or set the donation down in front of me where I can see it and then excuse yourself to the bathroom so I can count it.
Digital Payments : If planning to use a digital payment processor such as Cashapp or Venmo please inform me ahead of time. Otherwise I’ll be expecting the default option which is cash.
VENMO PAYMENTS– Must mark as sending payment “to friends or family” and NOT as a business/service. Trust me, I will notice. If not corrected immediately then I will expect the full amount in cash.
Time
TIME TRACKING
Nobody likes to feel rushed, especially in a relaxing and sensual setting. Nor do I want to have to keep eyeing the clock! Let’s just be in the moment and enjoy. However, with that said I am paid for my time spent providing companionship so it does matter. 15 additional minutes is 1/4 of a session. Not something to be flippant about.
SO HERE’S THE SOLUTION: Upon arrival I will set a timer on my phone for the length of the session and an alarm for the last 10 minutes.
Communication
Introduction Message
Not gonna lie, a complete introduction is very important and makes things go much smoother when the contents of your initial message contain all of the ‘need to know’ details. As it is often said, time IS money. As a companion, I am compensated for my time spent providing companionship and whatever we choose to do in that time is between two consenting adults. The more times I have to request details, the more back and forth occurs. This wastes both of our time. In truth the booking process should take 1-2 emails and no more than 3 texts to book your date. In that time I should manage to get all of the information that I need to know to confirm that:
1.) I am available for that date/time, and
2.) I am willing to accommodate your desired type of session
Additional questions or details should be combined within these messages.
WHAT TO INCLUDE:
- Name (I just need to know what to call you and save your contact info as/put down in my schedule)
- Date/Time
- Duration : *Length of session
- Location : Incall (if available) or outcall and where the outcall is
- Standard or VIP | 1
- Additional – add any relevant details, questions or requests that I need to know here.
Explicit Conversation
PLEASE STOP SENDING EXPLICIT MESSAGES!!!
It may sound counterintuitive, as my practice is erotic in nature but I request that you don’t send sexually suggestive messages. So when contacting me, please refrain from talking about specific acts especially in relation to any monetary exchange. Escorting can be a legal gray area at times and I must protect myself. My rates are compensation FOR MY TIME spent providing companionship. All activities during that time are between two consenting adults and subject to our discretion.
VIP vs. Standard Sessions
Here is some information to help you choose which type of session that you’d like to book with me.
| STANDARD | VIP |
|---|---|
| Full service | Full service |
| Oral (receiving) | Oral (receiving, giving, mutual) |
| FBSM | |
| + Additional positions | |
| Multiple finishes | |
| Advanced session styles – GFE, Fetish, coaching, intimacy instruction | |
What’s included in VIP?
| Positions: | Missionary, doggy style, cowgirl, reverse cowgirl, upside down, butterfly, etc. |
| Oral Pleasure: | CBJ, BBBJ, 69, DATY, C🐓ck Worship |
| Finishes: | COB, COF, COA |
| Styles: | GFE , fetish, femdom, edging (orgasm control AKA ‘tease & denial’) |
| Fetish: | Humiliation, feet, smoking🚬 , adult baby RP, orgasm control, role), cuckold, and SO MANY more… |
| Other : | Edging, cock worship, nude housekeeping. facesitting, ASMR incorporated play, cock stroking |
